After a woman started dating a man she met online, she began to suspect him when he would disappear for long periods of time and come up with “strange” excuses for his absence. She didn’t know that the man was seeing three other women behind her back.
A TikTok user named Amanda, also known as “Glamanda,” posted a video revealing how she reacted after discovering the harsh reality about the man she was seeing. Amanda and the man, whom she opted not to identify, met on the dating app Hinge in February 2023. After six weeks of dating, she noticed his peculiar behavior and began to suspect that something was amiss.
From Dating to Breaking Up
At first, Amanda believed she had found a wonderful guy and went on several dates with him before noticing some strange behavior. “He started going MIA for long periods of time, making plans and then bailing on them with these kind of like bizarre excuses [sic],” she explained in a TikTok video. After dating for six weeks, she chose to break things off. But that wasn’t the end of their tale.
Around a month after distancing herself from him, Amanda received a message on Instagram from an unknown woman that would change her life. The woman claimed to be the man’s girlfriend and revealed that he was also seeing two other women, including herself.
He Was Following Other Girls
If it weren’t for Instagram, the man’s girlfriends would never learn about the other girls he was seeing. After moving from Baltimore, Maryland, to Providence Area, the man had a casual relationship with a girl there.
When Amanda visited the group, she saw the man’s photo there, and under it were comments from 48 women claiming he was their boyfriend.
Like most girlfriends, the woman followed him on Instagram. Since he only followed a few people there, she immediately noticed when he started following a new girl. What made her feel more suspicious was that this woman was from the city he previously lived in.
She Saw Him with Another Woman
The girl didn’t act on her gut feeling until her boyfriend told her he would disappear for a few days because his mother was visiting. Concealing her suspicions, the girl casually asked him where he would take his mother and secretly arrived at the place he told her about.
The woman’s suspicions were confirmed when she discovered that the man was not with his mother, but was sitting with the same woman from Baltimore she saw on Instagram. Stunned by his insolence, she went home and texted another woman. The woman from Baltimore, who said she was the man’s girlfriend, was grateful to the woman for addressing her through Instagram. With the help of another woman, she left the man’s home and moved to a new location, where they reviewed the man’s Instagram followers list and found Amanda.
He Was Dating Four Women Simultaneously
After chatting with the woman on Instagram, Amanda learned that her ex-boyfriend was causally dating one girl and was in a serious relationship with two other women while simultaneously dating her. In her TikTok video, she concluded:
“He was cheating. There’s no other way to put it.”
Upon discovering that the man she was dating was involved with three other women, Amanda was taken aback. Intrigued, she delved deeper and stumbled upon the man’s picture on a Facebook group named “Are we dating the same person?”
As the name suggests, the group enables individuals to check if they are dating someone who is already in a relationship. Upon visiting the group, Amanda was stunned to see the man’s photo along with comments from 48 women who claimed that he was their boyfriend. Amanda commented on the situation, stating:
“We suspect there are more girls out there, and we suspect this behavior is going to continue.”
Concerned for the well-being of other women, Amanda posted a screenshot of the man’s dating app profile. She wanted other girls to avoid dating him because she suspected he was sexually active with multiple women simultaneously.
Time for Revenge
When Amanda and the three other women realized their boyfriend had cheated on all of them at the same time, they came up with a plan.
The four women teamed up and decided to show up at the man’s place. Three of them, including Amanda, hid at the corner of the street and watched the fourth girl walk up to his house.
Standing at his entrance, she greeted him when he opened the door and pretended to show him her outfit. She twirled before him and asked him if he liked it.
“Wait… my friends, my friends! I got to say bye to my friends!” the girl lied before walking towards Amanda and the two girls. Then she told the man her friends wanted to meet him and asked them to come when he agreed.
He Wasn’t Expecting This
In Amanda’s 2-minute-long TikTok video, the man was standing at his doorstep when all four of his girlfriends confronted him, to which he uttered:
“So what? What’s the point?”
Instead of listening to the women’s responses, the man closed the door in their faces immediately. “We love you so much!” one said while the others laughed.
They Became Friends
Soon after, the four women became best friends. After posting the video of her ex that went viral and racked up more than 6 million views, Amanda told her followers that “a sisterhood” had been created.
She considered the three girls her “life-long friends” and felt grateful that her horrible dating experience introduced three amazing women into her life. None of the four women had expected to make new friends that way.
